Love...what is it...

Love is but a beautiful feeling, which cannot be measured, counted or valued. It is something quite innate and it needs to sprout out from within. Does love and sex go hand in hand, is this all about physical intimacy or is it a mere illusory sentiment that one harbours for another. I am talking here with specific reference to the emotion one carries for one’s spouse and no other. I believe that both love and sex need to coexist and it does not mean that one cannot live without the other. As I said earlier, love is something that is internal to a human being and sex is a way you express it physically where two loving souls unite into one self and realize the true intent and potency of love through orgasm. It need not exhibit itself through sex always, but one has to understand that it is a powerful medium, as it is in these private moments you completely give in to the other. It is, however, misconstrued that women prefer love over sex and vice versa for men. Perhaps, it is partially true, but why do we need to segregate, one with women and the other with men. Is it the intent of god when he created men and women and also these inherent sensations? Yes, we can argue that love and sex quotient in a human being can vary from individual to individual, because it is driven by the need and dependency on the alter ego (your spouse, in this case), zest for life, passion and the ardour you carry within for your spouse.

Do I need to say that my love for my beautiful lady is simply obsessive? Or that I love her more than my life. Does loving your wife needs to be expressed through physical intimacy. Or do you do it through other means? Well it could vary from person to person. Does it always matter that the love of your life has to be like a movie star or like a fashion icon. That’s not the ideal thing that you would expect in a daily life. These are the creations of media, the companies that try to market and sell their products based on their concept of what is beautiful, chic and sexy. As normal human beings, yes, we are conditioned by what we see, perceive and try to emulate what has been injected into our minds through daily does of advertisements and what’s been portrayed and displayed around us. But that’s not the be all and end all of life. Nevertheless, we visit shopping malls, to spend that extra money to look well groomed, fashionable and smart looking if not scintillating. But then like John Keats said, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

Marriage is a communion of two souls. And when you give into the other completely in all aspects, you realize that you cannot live without the other. Until marriage, perhaps you were dependent on parents, had friends for everything else and then, life had changed radically post marriage. There is a new person in your life, like a storm she has entered and altered your life. She encompasses your lifestyle, thoughts, beliefs, liking, habits and every other little thing that composed your life. You cannot de-link her from any of these things. That’s the power of love and oneness. You have to live it to realize what I am saying here. It’s serene, beautiful and has its share of anguish which comes as a breeze to make your beliefs stronger, love more eloquent and just feel wanted ever more than before. As every day passes by, I realize that I need you much more than you ever need me. Why can’t I live without you, I can live, but not as a complete human, but strapped of all happiness, bliss and harmony.

What do I like so much about Vidya? She is disarmingly charming and vivacious. She is a bundle of energy, waiting to explode. And her love is so pristine, immeasurable and natural that you cannot but fall in love with her. She is so possessive, yet she does not evocate or expresses that evidently in front of others, except to me. And so am I dude. I simply cannot part with her. Her love quotient never diminishes rather increases with the passage of time. As they say, older the wine, sweeter it is likewise, she is always sweet; sometimes of course she does turn off key. But I do like her when she is wild and naughty, ignited with passion. With the onset of Anirud, her energies have dwindled though as she becomes tired of feeding and fighting with him through the day. But then he is the apple of her eye. She would do anything for him and stop at nothing. One should know that mom’s wrath and love can go much deeper and wider than an earthquake. Such is the power of love for the child that there is no match for it in the entire universe.

My baby doll looked simply cute and fabulous in a grey tee and black 3/4th jean. Wow darling, I have just swooned looking at you and have failed to find appropriate words to describe the lovely being in front of me.

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